One of the questions that we had to answer for our home study was, "Who do you know that can be a role model for your child from their native culture?" When I read that question I had no idea what to write. We knew of no one who was an adult from Congo. I've met a few families that have adopted at this point, but not any adults. So, I wrote for my answer that I didn't know anyone, but that we would try to get connected.
Another thing that you have to do for a home study is have a pretty in-depth physical. My regular doctor couldn't get us in until August. (This is one of the things that can really hold us up in the process.) I called another practice in our area that got us in almost immediately.
Last week we went to see the new doctor. I could hear Eric in the room next to me getting all excited about something. (You know how you can always hear through the walls...) The doctor came into my room and said, "I can't believe you are adopting from Congo. You know my husband is from Congo." What?! I could not believe it. Just the night before I had filled out paperwork stating that I would try to find some adults from there. And, there they were.
We chatted throughout the hour that we were there. My doctor's husband actually works at Emory (seems to be really well known there) and also runs a non-profit to bring awareness to the situation in Congo. He's not only a smart educated man from Congo, but he's doing something to help the situation over there. Now that sounds like a role model.
Our new doctor was also amazing. She finished up all of our paperwork, we already have it in hand! And, hopefully, we've started a relationship that will one day greatly influence our children and our whole family. I can't wait to see what happens next!
In the meantime, if you need a doctor please check out Dr. Pink (yes, that's her name. I'm a little jealous.) at Laureate Medical Group. And, if you want to learn more about the situation in Congo check out Congolese Genocide Awareness and get informed.
No comments:
Post a Comment